Showing posts with label Travel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Travel. Show all posts

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Why Bali..

I miss blogging.


Many knows that I love traveling and I specially love Indonesia, to be more precised - Bali. I have been to Bali for almost 10 times for the past 7 years or so. My adventure with Bali started when I was still very "adventurous". The first time I was there, I was so busy discovering all the fun things that Bali had to offer. I learned surfing and hung out with new found friends, partying all night. For the next few years, after my first visit, it was pretty much consisted of the same repeated things; surfing, partying, surfing, partying. Although it was really fun, but it was never without a tinge of regret. I partied hard with my friends in Bali back then, every morning I woke up with a hangover and immediately promised myself not to do it again. But when the night came, we went out and did it all over again.*shakes head*


But after a few times going back for the same thing, I got tired. I figured I need a change and we decided to head to Ubud, where the pace is much slower. It was probably because age was catching up with me.

When i first came to Ubud, all that I could think of was,

"If there's heaven, The Balinese there are the ones that deserve to be in it."

Majority of the people in Bali are Hindus but what is interesting about them, especially the one in Ubud, is how they embraced and assimilated the religion with their eclectic culture and old pagan practices. Every act a Balinese does is seen as an offering and their devotion to God - on how they take every day as God's gift and seem to be so content with what they have. They start their day with a prayer and they also end it with one. They are the friendliest bunch and they always make me smile. They always tell me to take things easy and they always say that worldly things are just that - things.

They make me appreciate my religion more and make me think of all the things that God has given me all these while, and all the things that I take for granted.


I have always appreciate good paintings and pretty art things but before Ubud, it was just a simple admiration. Nothing more than that. There, when everyone seemed to walk around buying arts and trinkets to take home as souvenirs, I chose to mindlessly scoured around the area soaking up on all the chaotic vibes of the art market and learned to appreciate what they have to offer in terms of creativity . I also learned about their daily struggle to provide for their families.

Tip for buyer : You want to be the first one to arrive at their shop because you will be considered as good business omen and they would usually give in at whatever price that you are asking for. But do consider the fact that they making a living out of this. Do not take advantage out of this scenario.

That was when I learned that as a traveler, you are somewhat obligated to contribute to their well being by actually spending money in  buying their products and hire them for their services - drivers, masseur, tour guide and whatnot. I know most of us like to travel cheap, but in comparison of what we have and what they need - there is a big gap of what's important. Throughout my journey there, I have made friends with many art sellers and struggling artists. I brought back many of their paintings for my own collection, for my friends and also my relatives. It was the sense of contribution that made all the  money and time spent worth all its while.

Since then on, when my friends knew that I was going to Bali, they requested and asked me to buy them paintings - based on what they need and what works for their home. They encouraged me to start a business as an art buyer and it has now turned into a small business. Every time I go to there, I would walk around and be on the look out for small galleries or small village art shops where the artist sells their own artwork. I don't haggle to get the cheapest price because I know how much time and effort has been put into making these arts. Some of them actually confessed that they sometimes googled the things that they want to paint to get some inspiration, work on the images and try to make it their own. I appreciate their honesty. Truth be told - I don't mind it at all. We get inspiration from whatever that could inspire us - whether it's the internet or our surroundings. Whatever that floats your boat.


I have found a place where I can go back at any time if I need to. Ubud offered me a sense of calm and serenity that I had never experienced before. I was not there because I wanted to shop or to search for what's fun. All I wanted at that point of time was an escape. And that was exactly what I experienced in Ubud. Now, although it seems that am going back there again and again for business, but it never  really feels that way. I love what I do for my friends and customers as much as I admire the Balinese and all those lovely souls that I get to call friends. Gianyar province, where Ubud in located, thrives on handcrafts, stone and wood carvings, paintings and musics. It is in their blood and it is their most proud heritage. It is not easy to live and get by in these areas of Indonesia,  but what they lack in materialism, they offset it with spiritualism and a good heart.

Friday, May 22, 2009

The storm is approaching Koh Ngai Island.

I have a lot of things to say about our current political scenes, but I would just shut my potty mouth for now.

Outsourcing is a bitch. Especially for small businesses and you can see it for yourself in Phuket.

I just came back and I swear that I would never go back there again. It was not even worth my time and money. It was a pleasant stay for me 5 years ago, but now, everything feels as if they are trying to leech out every cent off the tourists.

Some of it was pleasant, but most of the encounters were horrible.

Most of the shops are now manned by either Nepalese or Bangladeshi. Before this you can only see or hear them screaming and telling you that you need a suit or two, maybe pants, shirts and also tie, and they can tailor made it for you in 24 hours. Right? Now they have ventured into other businesses; selling all those nice craftworks, pretty dresses and bags, souvenirs and whatnots. The business owners, usually the locals, have outsourced it or hired them because they speak better English. Like what the fuck right?

I miss bargaining with a Thai girl; all panicking and blushing when I asked for too low of a discount. I miss that warm accommodating smile that welcomes you to their shop.

Most of these Nepalese and Bangladeshi salespersons were rude, arrogant and condescending. They think they run the country and they are the engine that moves the economy or some shit. Their mere existence irks me.

Tuktuk experience was even worst. My friend wanted to go to the Hard Rock Café to buy a shot glass for her collection. Since we weren’t too sure about the location, we flagged down a Tuktuk, asked him to send us there. He sent us there alright. The fucked up thing was, it has been closed down; yet he charged us 200bhatt for a 7-8 minutes ride? Felt like someone just punch me right on the face; might as well kick me in the gut while you are at it.

That felt like renting a chauffeured Mercedes with a fuckwit as a driver. A pretty fucked up arrangement. He should have just mentioned it to us that Hard Rock Café was no longer in operation, easy as that.

Blardy leeches I tell you.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

I can't wait for my Bali trip with the girls.

But kesian Mr.Snots. His birthday is on March, 30th and I'll be flying off on April 1st. This is supposed to be his first birthday that we are going to celebrate as a couple, and I was thinking of spending the whole week with him, but I had purchased the ticket even before we started seeing each other.

Speaking of trips, I have been travelling around lately. I work hard, so I balance my life with a good quick getaway to keep my mind sane.

This month is the only month that am not on any vacation or some sort. Eh but then, I was in Terengganu for 5 days, so can I consider that as handling a business and mixing it with pleasure? Not really a vacation but sort of. At least, I got to stay in a room facing the wide open sea. So oklah.

Next month, I'll be going to Phuket, with Mr.Snots and a bunch of my colleagues and most probably Pulau Perhentian in June.

People think that I'm like the super rich person that's why I can afford to go on for a vacation every month.

What people do not know that I'm a savvy traveller, and I travel cheap; oh and also a charitable Along that is easily melted everytime I tell him that I want money and I love him. Haha.

But seriously; I travel cheap.

I don't spend so much money on shopping (unless am in Bangkok).

I rather spend my time taking pictures and learning about the places am visiting.

Lying on the beach reading books, getting a traditional massage, or whatever that can help me calm myself.

That for me is a heavenly getaway.